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Bullying Is Allowed In Gates County School System! UPDATE!

Word on the street is that the school board is a little upset with me posting the parents letter.  Guess what? GOOD they should be! A little late though don't you think?

I have lost count of parents that have emailed me with almost the exact same stories.

Their child being bullied, school officials DO NOTHING!

This is not just a recent problem, its been going on for YEARS!

The bully's suffer no consequences for their actions. Matter of fact they are rewarded by being allowed to participate in school activities, sports, etc. But the poor victim and their families sure suffer! What is wrong with this picture?

Here is a private message sent to me, so I will not post the sender: COPIED & PASTED


this mess with school board is no surprise years ago i spoke to a board member about an incident with a substitute teacher and my daughter she went to the board an they told her not to stir up any I see nothing has changed

What do other citizens think about this? Well here ya go!

She came on my county page and tried to bully me as well. The apple does not fall far from the tree. Open your eyes Gates County School Board, before this is taken to the point of no return. Tyler Britton's rights have been violated, by your OWN rules in your own school manual.

My advice to the Barnes's would be to hire an attorney and to sue the Gates County School System. It appears it is the only thing that they will understand, because when you ask for help to protect your child, you receive NOTHING!
That is all the Barne's and other parents have asked for ...HELP TO PROTECT THEIR CHILDREN.

How sad is that!

What I am trying to wrap my head around, is why this school is refusing to address this bullying situation. I mean cyber-bulling and right out bullying is a very hot topic in the news; especially with the kids that have committed suicide because of being bullied!!! I believe someone should contact the National Board of Education in Washington DC to see if they can send someone to investigate this school because I "believe" Tyler's civil rights have been violated!!

Nancy Wiggins It is one thing GC bullying adults with ridiculous spending habits, but allowing kids to be bullied by their peers & educators is just WRONG! Yes, I saw this bullying taking place to someone in my own family, the issue was addressed to school authorities, NOTHING was done. Ended up, dropped out of school, got GED and has ever since hated to admit ever being in GC school system. I was heartbroken with decision to drop out but I respected & understood the reason. Never will forget or forgive something that could have, should have been stopped but no it is allowed to continue.
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Nita Holder well lets hope they change the PTA. My sister is a teacher there & I know she would not tolerate the bullying. You (Amy ) are better than me cause I would be the one in jail. I HATE bullys. And when the mother did nothing to help I would have probably been arrested. Good luck.
  • Terri Lee Godsey They need to do something...cause all the parents are just as guilty as their bully children.

  • Lisa LeeLee Byrd Temple What happened to ZERO TOLERANCE for bullying??? I can not understand how this is not only being allowed in the public school system but the behavior of this bully is apparently condoned & even encouraged...where are the authorities who are allowing this woman (mother of the bully) to speak to another parent in the his manner yet still hold a position of authority herself? She needs to be STOPPED! As the old saying goes, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree...there is no doubt where this CHILD (bully) gets her cocky attitude from! They BOTH need to be stopped! I sincerely hope that these news channels getting involved brings some much needed attention to this situation! I have known Tyler her entire life and can't honestly say I know a kid (even my own) as quietly sweet and humble as her! I have also known Amy so long I don't remember actually meeting her...and I know she is a good strong mother who would do anything for her children...yet she has no reason to attempt to "live through" them as she has had a very full life of her own. I also know that it is not her choice to be at home with disabilities which make it impossible for her to be out working. She has no control over that & yet this supposed adult can sit back & ridicule her for the simple act of standing up for her child!?!? Someone please STOP these people. In my honest opinion Tyler is better off OUT of that school but it is my hope that this can be stopped so that other CHILDREN are not subjected to the horror that Tyler has been through! Good luck & if I can be of any assistance don't hesitate to ask!

  • Susan Lee Barber This small town school system needs to open their eyes. Emotional bullying can cause more damage to a child than physical bullying sometimes. The whole country is hell bent on controlling a person's right to bear arms but bullying seems to to swept under the rug in Gates County. WAKE UP PEOPLE !!! where do u think school violence starts. U cannot allow a child to be bullied just because u r friends with the parent of the child that is doing the bullying. Obviously this child has no one to teach her that bullying is wrong because the parents seem to be bullies too in their own way. And when the school system blows it off like its no big thing then a lesson will never be learned. Central Middle School in Gates County, NC needs to be held responsible for letting these children who are victims of bullying down and not protecting them just so they don't stir the pot with their friends. Sorry is not a comforting word when it's too late and this problem has gone too far. GET UR HEADS OUT OF THE SAND GATES COUNTY and do the job u were elected or hired to do. An injured or dead child on ur hands is a lot harder to deal with than losing ur so called high society upstanding head in the sand members of the community and school system as ur good friends. Roanoke Rapids stands behind u Tyler and all the other kids who are being bullied at Central Middle School. Hold ur heads up high. U ARE LOVED !!!!!

Terri Lee Godsey I do not understand why the parents and the school do not do ANYTHING about these bullies. In my opinion the parents and the school are just as much a bully as their children. It's a shame my niece cant attend school and get her education without being bullied. But her bully has the school in the palm of her hand and that's the problem. Discipline begins at home, so that tells me that her Mom is a Bully also to let her child get away with the things she has done. I read stories everyday about children committing suicide because of bullying. Something needs to be done about this GOOD 'OLE BOY SYSTEM

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1. Concerned For The Children | February 25, 2013 at 07:06 AM EST [ delete ]

Kathy I was on your Friends of Gates County Facebook page last night and was appalled at what I read coming from Ms. Watson mother of the accused bully.It is apparent she has issues and totally was trying to attack everyone she could including you.I was confused since all you did was print a letter from the victims parents and gave her the opportunity to tell her side, which she never did.This person is the president of a PTA? What are the school officials thinking, or are they thinking at all? Maybe no one else wanted the job. I would rather have no one then to settle for this! Its obvious this mother has serious personality issues which she has passed onto her child. She needs to teach her daughter it is NOT okay to attack someone because you do not agree or they won't do what you want.There are some very serious problems with a school board that does not act to protect innocent children. I hope you don't let up and follow this all the way to the end. This needs to stop now. Thank you for all your hard work. I was just sitting back and reading last night. You are good at what you do and can hold your own.Praying something good comes out of this before it is too late. God Bless You!

 I could go on for days with the comments people have sent me.

PLEASE NOTICE THE IMAGE BELOW. This was a note given to Tyler (Who was a cheerleader)

Do you all see the sentence KILL THE CHEERLEADERS, HE HATES CHEERLEADERS?

Gates County Schools DID NOTHING!

 

This is a note given to my Daughter from a friend of hers about the bully saying her "boyfriend" wants to KILL the cheerleaders, this was told to the school and the resource officer and it went NO WHERE!!
This is a note given to my Daughter from a friend of hers about the bully saying her

EXACTLY what is it going to take to get these officials to ACT! Too late after a child is dead! Too late then.

It's is time for this good ole boy whoyaknow infantile actions by this school system to STOP now. Your job is to protect all the children...not just some.

To have a mother who heads your PTA to drop F-Bombs on a social media site, this is ALLOWED and she is not removed immediately is just beyond crazy. This woman has left quite a paper trail behind. What I find funny, she goes back and deletes them...Too Late...people have copied and saved them.

Specific policy number protecting children from (1) Verbal Harassment; (2) discrimination (received from the school) and (3) bullying!
http://sbepolicy.dpi.state.nc.us/

 

 

 

 


10 comments | Add a New Comment
1. moonshiner | February 26, 2013 at 07:08 AM EST

Bullies suck!!

2. i got to the gchs i will not tell my name | February 27, 2013 at 08:06 PM EST

i get bulled alot in class and the techer dose nothing about it i am really depresed and i just hate it so much we relly need to do somethig about this ok and when i tell nothing happens

3. Kathy | February 27, 2013 at 09:20 PM EST

To: I go to gchs I will not tell my name- PLEASE don't go through this yourself.If you need any help please let me know. Would be glad to help, you are not alone and we can make this stop. If you are on Facebook please go to our page;

Friends of Gates County Chat

Here is the link:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/friendsgatescounty/

4. jane doe | February 27, 2013 at 09:57 PM EST

How about YOU parents teach your children to ignore bullies. you cant get bullied if you have confidence in yourself & you cant go through this world being soft and expecting others to fight for you. they think middle school is bad? ha try high school. and you want the board to clean up everything. you think you can do their job better, go do it!!

5. Scott | February 27, 2013 at 11:05 PM EST

My Son Go To Central Middle I Had A Run In With The Principal Done Anything To Help My Son Is Still Having Problems She Need To Be Fried

6. Jerry Butler | February 27, 2013 at 11:57 PM EST

I watched the bullying situation broadcast on WVEC-TV this evening.

It is hard to believe that a Principal of a school would reply

as she did to a student who wished to report a death threat. If

this is true, I believe that both the Principal AND the Supertindent

of Schools need retraining.

Incidents such as this should be reported to the Police or Sheriff's Department

for investigation. If the school doesn't report it then the parent's should

7. Kathy | February 28, 2013 at 12:29 AM EST

Scott you need to pay a visit to the superintendent and let him know your issues. I think he will definitely be doing his job correctly now.If not let me know, I will put you in contact with people that can help you.

8. Kathy | February 28, 2013 at 12:34 AM EST

Jerry Butler.....I agree with you...but believe it, because it did happen.The parents informed the principle, the counseler, the resourse officer...no one even asked to see the note...they didn't care. They know if they put you off long enough, eventually you will just grow tired and go away. That principle should be fired and the super needs to get his act together.It's too late when a kid commits suicide or walks in that school with a gun. Lets not forget Columbine. Those boys were victims of bullies.

9. jeff | February 28, 2013 at 03:38 AM EST

The School Board Need To Have A Meeting With The Parents About Fried The Principle

Of Central Middle School She Is Not Doing A Good Job At All

10. MOONSHINER | February 28, 2013 at 06:24 AM EST

I thought the school resource officer was hired to prevent situations like this from happening.

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